is there a need to judge? who are you to judge? who gave you the right to judge?
the easiest reason to explain people why people judge simply is because they need a common ground to stand. a common ground that is created, solely, in liaising their intellectuality and what they have seen/experienced. so in so, they are able to understand better of what was/is going on.
(please do bear in mind that some people may not be as smart as others. in that, not many people can understand many things. sometimes, trying is not the key. if you are unable to understand certain things now, you may never understand them ever.)
the sad part, most of the time, the very misconstrued judgments are nowhere near of being subsets of the truth. but then again, what are truths? i have always believed that truths are merely perceptions. for the protaganist, truth is simply his very own perceptions and experiences. isn't it?
base line is: people have a right to have their own liaisons, common grounds, perceptions and truths. keep them to yourself. do not use them as tags or requirements for friends to: behave, speak, think or action.
as much as the world practices freedom of speech, the world practices freedom of many other things as well. one demands fairness from the world, right? but, if one is unable to practice fairness to the small circle of friends they have, what is there to preaching 'life isn't fair'?
never mind.
i shall still stand by: doth not unto others what thou doth not want to be doneth unto thou.
*peace*

